Living in Essence

Living in Essence  -- Dimension of love

Once we have found our basic essence back we notice that there is another yearning in our system. The yearning for love. This planet is crazy about love; love is our deepest wish and desire. Mostly we know only emotional love, while the Sufi’s know more than 30 different dimensions of love.
Love is the creative force behind all manifestation. It is the food for the soul and simultaneously it is a fundamental element of the soul. It brings meaning to life. In order to know love in its essential fullness we need to reclaim certain aspects that we lost contact to in early childhood. Once reclaimed we can finally stop begging for love or pretending we don’t need it. Instead we become loving beings ourselves.

In a series of 6 modules  we will move through 8 different dimensions of love.
The first 5 modules will be taught in weekend seminars and the last one will be taught in a 3 or 4 day seminar.

Nourishing love- Milk Essence 
This love brings deep nourishment to the body and the soul. It brings us deep inner satisfaction and stills our hunger for nourishment from the outside. Without it we tend to feel undernourished and needy.

Unconditional Love- Pink Essence
When this love flows it is as if we are wearing pink glasses and the whole world looks beautiful to us. As we feel it in our body. It also restores our sense of appreciation for who we are. When pink is missing judgment and criticism take over.

Merging love- Golden Essence
This is an inner presence of warm, melting, sweet love. It is one of our most basic needs as a human being to feel this presence and to be able to melt both with ourselves as well as with the other. If we don’t experience the gold we always want to get the melting from our partner, which leads to trouble and dependencies.

Ecstatic Passionate love- Pomegranate Essence
This essence moves us into the field of pure passion. It is also called the wine of essence, the blood of life. It brings the courageous zest of life. We are alive and turned on when it flows again. In the absence of passionate love we feel fearful and we lack the love to live.

Precious love, love for truth – Copper-golden Essence
With copper gold running in our system we feel that we are precious. A deep sense of value arises for oneself and everyone else as well as the love for truth. Without it we feel inferior, worthless and fearful to speak our truth. 


The next three qualities are called : Impersonal qualities of love.
Impersonal in the sense that the refer to a field of love around us. This field is often called the existence which holds us.


The loving holding environment – Living Daylight
With this love we feel held and loved by existence. We feel embraced by a loving presence, which fills us with a deep trust in life as opposed to living a life in fear and mistrust.

Intimate love – Luminous Black
Here we feel not only held but also deeply intimate with the whole of existence. We are filled with peace, friendliness and intimacy. It heals the feeling in us of not belonging.

Divine Love –  The touch of grace
This love fills our being with divine grace. It is the touch of God. We no longer feel like orphans of the universe but we experience ourselves as divine beings.